What is Eros Love?

Session 03: Friday 07.17.20

OPEN PRAYER


E R O S :  Intense sexual and passionate love
This sort of love is intense like a drug, you lose control in heat of passion, your mind could be in cloud 9, you can’t see clearly, you yearn, and wean like a love sick person, you get obsessive, or jealous, it turns your life upside down and some would die and kill for that sort of love. Wow what an incredible feeling. 




Eros was a Greek god of lust and primal sexual desire. In fact, the word erotic comes from his name. He is personified in all kinds of love and lust, both heterosexual and homosexual, and was worshiped at the center of a fertility cult that honored both Eros and Aphrodite together.

 Love in the form of Eros seeks its own interest and satisfaction (Could be selfish)—to possess the object of love. God is very clear in the Bible that eros love is reserved for marriage.



The Bible uses Eros love in a marriage for husbands and wife. Eros is the word often used to express sexual love or the feelings of arousal that are shared between people who are physically attracted to one another. Eros is used in the Old Testament to express the physical and sensual intimacy between a husband and a wife.


The Bible Says
“Oh, that he would kiss me with the kisses of his mouth! For your love is more delightful than wine. The fragrance of your perfume is intoxicating; your name is perfume poured out. No wonder young women adore you. Take me with you, let us hurry. Oh, that the king would bring me to his chambers.”
– Song of Solomon 1: 2-4



“Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.” – Hebrews 13:4

“Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.” – 1 Corinthians 7:5


Round table Discussion
Q: Have you experienced this kind of love before?


Q: When eros, passion fades, how do we keep the flames burning? Or what are the things to keep the fire burning?

Maybe find out your partner's love language and put the other first?
Love Language by Gary Chapman.


Prayer request.


Action item for the week
- How can you build your relationship to a level of showing love?
- Continue to mingle with each other and pray for each other.


CLOSE PRAYER



What is Philia Love?

Session 02: Friday 07.10.20

OPEN PRAYER


There are four types of love:  philia .  eros .  storge .  agape.
The strongest and most unselfish love is agape.


So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love. 
– 1 Corinthians 13:13 


P H I L I A :  Friendship love, non sexual
Philia (Pronounced: FILL-ee-uh) is the type of intimate love in the Bible that most Christians practice toward each other. This Greek term describes the powerful emotional bond seen in deep friendships.

Philia originates from the Greek term phílos, a noun meaning "beloved, dear ... a friend; someone dearly loved (prized) in a personal, intimate way; a trusted confidant held dear in a close bond of personal affection." The least demanding and and jealous kind of love!

Philia is the most general type of love in Scripture, encompassing love for fellow humans, care, respect, and compassion for people in need. The concept of brotherly and sisterly love that unites believers is unique to Christianity.


Quotes by CS Lewis:
I believe in Christianity as I believe that the sun has risen: not only because I see it, but because by it I see everything else.

True humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less.

God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pains: it is His megaphone to rouse a deaf world.

The Bible SaysJesus said philia would be an identifier of his followers: "By this everyone will know that you are my disciples if you love one another." – John 13:35

Let brotherly/sisterly love continue.  – Hebrews 13:1

And godliness with brotherly affection, and brotherly affection with love. – 2 Peter 1:7,


Source: https://www.learnreligions.com/what-is-philia-700691


Round Table DiscussionFollow up from last week’s action item. Who have you connected with?

Q: Can men and women have Philia love for with each other?

Q: Can Philia love be applied to Storge or Eros love? Do you agree with CS Lewis ideas?

Q: What kind of attitude should we take to show Philia Love? (1st Cor 13)


Prayer request.


Action item for the week
Show Philia love to someone this coming week.
Continue to mingle with each other.


CLOSE PRAYER